Showing posts with label personal growth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personal growth. Show all posts
Sunday, June 9, 2013
Stewardship: Part 3 of 3
Conserve Water: When using a dishwasher, scrape plates instead of pre-rinsing them. When using a dishwasher or washing machine, wash a full load. Wash clothes in cold water. When hand-washing dishes or clothes, turn the water off between rinses. Instead of using a clothes dryer, hang clothes on a line or drying rack. Take Showers instead of baths. The toilet does not need to be flushed, every time it’s used. “If it’s yellow, let it mellow. If it’s brown, flush it down.” Turn the water off while shaving or brushing teeth. Refrigerate drinking water.
Lawn & Garden: Invest in, or make your own compost bin, and compost as much as you can. When mowing, do not bag grass clippings; leave them on the lawn. Fertilize after, not before it rains. Instead of using pesticides and herbicides, weed by hand, purchase or make your own natural pest control products, attract and utilize beneficial insects in your garden(s). Water the lawn or garden during the coolest part of the day (early morning is best). Set sprinklers to water the lawn or garden only - not the street or sidewalk. Use a soaker hose or trickle irrigation system to water trees. Install gutters and rain barrels.
Sunday, March 3, 2013
The Lost Art of Discernment: Part 2 of 2
The formatting is acting up again; this week we seem to have some color ... lol
In a nutshell, it could be said that discernment is the “mindful consideration” of a subject. It is the conscious act of going beyond our individual, pre-conceived views, judgements and perceptions.
Discernment is cyclical and consists of an external and an internal component.
The external component of discernment pertains to actively researching a topic, to gain understanding. It is the practice of comparing and analyzing what we already believe we know, with information we read, see or hear.
The internal component deals with comprehension and personal integration of our research, via meditation and personal reflection. It is an interior search, it is the process of determining the Creator’s/God's will for us, and the ability to carry it out.
(Discernment is) “Knowing what to do, how to proceed, and how
to respond when the issue is not visible to us.” Peggy Moerbe
King Solomon emphasized the importance of practicing
discernment.
My
son, if you will receive my sayings and treasure up my own commandments with
yourself, so as to pay attention to wisdom with your ear, that you may incline
your heart to discernment; if, moreover, you call out
for understanding itself and you give forth your voice for discernment
itself, if you keep seeking for it as for silver, and as for hid treasures you
keep searching for it, in that case you will understand the fear of God, and
you will find the very knowledge of God. When
wisdom enters into your heart and knowledge itself becomes pleasant to your
very soul, thinking ability itself will keep guard over you, discernment
itself will safeguard you, to deliver you from the bad way, from the man
speaking perverse things, from those leaving the paths of uprightness to walk
in the ways of darkness. Proverbs 2:1-5, 10-13
Discernment helps us:
·
determine
the value and quality of our individual views, judgements and perceptions
·
perceive subtleties (grasp and
comprehend that which is not obvious)
·
discard any old or new information that is
misleading or irrelevant
·
recognize truths that resonate within our hearts
·
practice humility
·
self correct
·
set our priorities straight
·
exercise
good judgement
·
gain
wisdom by making wise decisions, especially during stressful/trying times
·
cultivate a close relationship
with the Creator/God
Discernment requires time and personal
effort. As mentioned earlier, discernment is cyclical; there are many steps to take to complete a discernment cycle. The process is the same, regardless of how many times we have gone through the cycle.
Here is the process:
Here is the process:
·
Abandon the notion that we always know what is best.
·
Pray to the Creator/God for an open, receptive
mind and heart: Because truth is constantly changing, it is important to have
an open mind so we can let go of old knowledge that is no longer valid.
·
Ask the Creator/God for the help of the Holy
Spirit.
·
Actively dig for information, as if searching
for a buried treasure.
·
Isolate and focus on the main points presented
in our research; this will help us understand the development
of the subject at hand.
·
Ask the Creator/God to help us understand/comprehend
information found in our research.
· Analyze new information: Put information
received to the test; see if it is truthful.
How does this new information apply to us, individually? Do the
results of our research resonate as truth within our hearts? If not, do not automatically assume that it is false; we may
simply not be ready to receive it yet.
Instead, continue researching and meditating on the subject at hand; in
time, the truth will be revealed.
“Beloved ones, do not believe
every inspired expression, but test the inspired expressions.” 1 John 4:1
·
Pay
attention to intuition; it does not lie.
Intuition is the spark of light within each of us that provides us with an innate knowing/sense of awareness that comes to us without explanation or proof.
·
While digging for answers, wait
for the Creator/God to respond.
·
Meditate upon how new found information relates
to the Creator’s/God’s purpose.
One who is trying to make spiritual progress
should attempt to … see things objectively … without being influenced by emotions or passions. Discerning whether something
is the Creator’s/God’s will, or the (D)evil’s will, requires calm, rational
reflection. The Creator’s/God’s will
brings us to peaceful, joyful decisions. The (D)evil’s will leads us to make
quick, emotional, conflicted decisions. Paraphrase, St. Ignatius of Loyola
·
Meditate upon how to integrate and apply new ideas
into our lives
·
Practice honest self-evaluation: Do we need to make personal adjustments in our thinking/beliefs?
·
Abandon our personal views/judgements/perceptions
when it becomes obvious that we are wrong.
·
Integrate
our new found truth(s) into our hearts.
When we consistently practice discernment, integrate
our new found truths into our hearts,
and apply new ideas
into our lives, we grow spiritually. Over
time, we take on a new personality, and the current cycle of discernment is
complete. Each completed cycle brings us closer to the truth.
If we make the conscious effort to fill our minds and hearts with the truth, we will gain wisdom, insight, and discernment. A humble person who puts forth this kind of effort will indeed be able to get to know the Creator/God.
Let us gives serious attention to what is really deep inside of ourselves. Let us use our minds to acquire accurate knowledge of the Creator/God. Let us meditate on these things and seek to apply them. By doing so,
You
will know the truth, and truth will set you free. John
8:32
So it is, sealed in trust, faith and truth, in the Sacred
Divine Light (Jesus Christ). Amen
Sunday, February 3, 2013
FORGIVENESS: Part 2 of 2
It is impossible to maintain
successful relationships without forgiveness.
Without forgiveness, resentments and mistrust grow. Resentments and mistrust act as toxic poisons
and kill (destroy) relationships. Be
quick to forgive.
Let the sun not set with you in a provoked state. Ephesians 4:26
What if we are unable to forgive
quickly? Emotional wounds take time,
love and patience to heal. Love and
patience help us to forgive someone whom we perceive is really trying.
It serves us well to remember to
ask the Creator/God to cultivate a forgiving spirit toward any offender who
makes an honest effort to alter their thoughtless, unkind, harmful words and/or
actions, and sincerely asks for our forgiveness.
Hmmm … We ask for a forgiving
spirit … What does that mean?
When we are on the receiving end
of thoughtless, unkind, harmful words and/or actions, it can be difficult for
us to allow these words and/or actions to pass through us,. This is
due, largely in part, because reactions to personal offenses are usually
emotion based reactions. Emotional
responses to perceived offenses can range from mild to strong; it is not
uncommon for us to feel angry or betrayed; we may even desire justice or
revenge.
When we are hurt by others, we often want to retaliate and hurt them back
in some way, as pay back. We can reduce anger and other negative
emotions with understanding, open-mindedness, a willingness to forgive,
and love for one another.
When others offend us, being
willing to forgive, out of love, keeps us from
automatically assuming that anothers motives are bad.
Above all things, have intense love for one another, because
love covers a multitude of sins. 1
Peter 4: 8
Continue putting up with one another and
forgiving one another freely if anyone has a cause for complaint against another. Even as
Jehovah freely forgave you, so do you also. But, besides all these things,
[clothe yourselves with] love, for it is a perfect bond of union. Colossians 3:13-14
Determining why we are upset reduces our emotional
responses. Using our rational mind to
analyze offensive words and/or actions, and understanding the reason(s) for our
reaction, allows us to consider what would be the most appropriate response.
Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended,
for the taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones. Ecclesiastes 7:9
Taking time to calm down and
view the situation from the position of an “objective observer” helps us to remain
open-minded and respond more appropriately. When we
remove our subjective, emotional selves from the picture and examine the
scenario as objective observers, we find that many negatively perceived words
and actions flow right through us. The
more we practice taking our subjective,
emotional selves out of the picture, the more we will see that most of the
things that are said or done to us, is not personal; it is not about us. This objectiveness helps us see that others
typically are not being deliberately hurtful
or thoughtless; our offenders are simply being their imperfect human selves.
He that is slow to anger is abundant in
discernment, but one that is impatient is exalting foolishness. Proverbs 14:29
The insight of a man certainly slows down
his anger, and it is beauty on his part to pass over transgression Proverbs 19:11
Know this, my beloved brothers. Every man
must be swift about hearing, slow about speaking, slow about wrath; for man’s
wrath does not work out God’s righteousness. James 1:19-20
By maintaining a positive view
of our offender, in spite of what they are saying or doing to us, we build them
up, rather than tear them down. When we reflect
back to them what we perceive they are putting out, we give ourselves, and
them, an opportunity to clear up misunderstandings; each is also given the
opportunity to gain/maintain control over their own behavior. What a gift!
Therefore keep comforting one another and
building one another up, just as you are in fact doing. 1 Thessalonians
5:11
We each have that power within
us to create love, joy, peace and contentment, within our own hearts. Learn to forgive. If anybody upsets us, don’t take it to heart,
forgive them. If we have any ill-feelings,
any grudges, please forgive them.
Forgive them, that's the only way
we can go forward and go on with our life. Grandmother Agnes (13 Indigenous Grandmothers)
So it is, sealed in trust, faith
and truth, in the Sacred Divine Light (Jesus Christ).
Amen
Sunday, January 27, 2013
FORGIVENESS: Part 1 of 2
Forgiveness is a gift that we
give to ourselves; there is a strong relationship between forgiveness and
mental health; forgiveness lightens our load and helps us maintain our own
inner peace. Forgiveness is
essential, if we are to maintain peaceful relationships
with others. Through forgiveness, the
bonds of personal relationships are strengthened. When
we forgive, our relationship with the Creator/God is strengthened and we
are blessed with peace and contentment.
When we harbor feelings of judgment, revenge, persecution and/or anger,
we slowly poison ourselves with toxic thoughts and emotions. As a result, we
repeatedly suffer from poor health, broken relationships, stress, and/or
communication difficulties. We lower our
vibrational frequency to a level which limits: our ability to ascend to a place of
inner peace, love and gratitude, as well as our re-connection with the Creator/God and the
Divine Light/Jesus.
Though we may
have suffered at the
hands of another, what has happened has happened ~ Let us not allow the
behavior of others, to rob us of our happiness, by dwelling on negative thoughts
and mentally ruminating over how we have been mistreated. Let us not allow such thoughts to control our
thinking. Let us move on so we can be at peace, and heal.
Do not let yourself be conquered by the evil, but keep conquering the
evil with the good. Romans 12: 21
Some people with whom we are in personal
relationship with, are repeatedly unkind to us.
Forgiveness does not mean that we approve of their
behavior or minimize any damage created by their behavior. Having said that, it is in our best interest to maintain a positive relationship with this person, by not keeping track of any
wrong doings this person may have already done to us. We all stumble in word and in deed on a
regular basis.
For we all stumble many times. If anyone does not stumble in word, this
one is a perfect man, able to bridle also [his] whole body. James
3:2
The offender, like each of us, is a victim of
human imperfection. With this realization, we can then allow ourselves to
imagine the motivating pain and/or suffering behind the perceived wrong-doing
behavior. When we can imagine this, we
can forgive more easily.
One of the greatest things that any of us have,
is prayer. It is hard to stay angry with
someone, for very long, when we are praying for them, so pray for the
offender.
“Continue
to love your enemies and to pray for those persecuting you.” Matthew. 5:44.
If a person asks for forgiveness, it will
serve us well to keep in mind that, if the shoe were on the other foot, we
would want the other person to forgive us. It will also serve us well to do the same for
our offender, no matter how often it happens.
Forgiving others for personal offenses, regardless of the number of
times involved, is a Christian requirement; there is no arbitrary limit on
forgiveness.
Then Peter came up and said to him: “Lord,
how many times is my brother to sin against me and am I to forgive him? Up to
seven times?” Jesus said to him: “I say to you, not, Up to seven times, but, Up
to seventy-seven times.” Mathew 18:21-22
Pay attention to yourselves. If your brother
commits a sin give him a rebuke, and if he repents forgive him. Even if he sins
seven times a day against you and he comes back to you seven times, saying, ‘I
repent,’ you must forgive him.” Luke 17:3-4
There
are times when a person might intentionally hurt us; there are also times when
an offender may not be remorseful or ask for forgiveness. The Creator/God prescribed a way for
seeking and receiving his forgiveness. A person must acknowledge and confess
his/her wrong-doing, recognize that it was an offense not just to another
person, but also against the Creator/God, feel deep heartfelt sorrow and
remorse, be determined to change his/her ways, and to the best of his/her
ability, fix any damage done. It matters not how far one falls, but the
strength of his/her determination to set matters right, rise above the wrong-doing, and move
forward.
When
we encounter a non-remorseful offender, it is in our best interest to lovingly release the
person to the Creator/God, leave the relationship, and move on with our
life. Although divine forgiveness
is expansive and generous, the Bible states that we should not pray for those
sinning against the Holy Spirit, with no repentance, as this is a deliberate
practice of malicious, willful sin, for which there is no forgiveness.
On this account I say to YOU, Every sort of
sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the spirit
will not be forgiven. Matthew 12:31
It is important to remember,
that when we release a person to the Creator/God,
and walk away, that we do so lovingly, and without judgment. By imitating the Creator’s/God’s attitude
toward forgiveness, we step out of the picture and allow the Creator/God, to
examine the offender’s thoughts and heart and guide us on our path.
Return evil for evil to no one. Provide fine
things in the sight of all men. If possible, as far as it
depends upon YOU, be peaceable with all men. Do not avenge yourselves, beloved,
but yield place to the wrath; for it is written: “Vengeance is mine; I will
repay, says Jehovah.” Romans 12:17-19
So it is, Sealed in Faith in the Divine Light/Jesus ... Amen
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